October 10

Reading: Proverbs 5

1  My son, be attentive to my wisdom; incline your ear to my understanding, 2 that you may keep discretion, and your lips may guard knowledge.

3  For the lips of a forbidden woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil, 4 but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.

5  Her feet go down to death; her steps follow the path to Sheol; 6 she does not ponder the path of life; her ways wander, and she does not know it.


7  And now, O sons, listen to me, and do not depart from the words of my mouth.

8  Keep your way far from her, and do not go near the door of her house, 9 lest you give your honor to others and your years to the merciless, 10 lest strangers take their fill of your strength, and your labors go to the house of a foreigner, 11 and at the end of your life you groan, when your flesh and body are consumed, 12 and you say, “How I hated discipline, and my heart despised reproof! 13 I did not listen to the voice of my teachers or incline my ear to my instructors. 14 I am at the brink of utter ruin in the assembled congregation.”


15 Drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well.

16 Should your springs be scattered abroad, streams of water in the streets?

17 Let them be for yourself alone, and not for strangers with you.

18 Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, 19 a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.

20 Why should you be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden woman and embrace the bosom of an adulteress?

21 For a man’s ways are before the eyes of the LORD, and he ponders all his paths.

22 The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him, and he is held fast in the cords of his sin.

23 He dies for lack of discipline, and because of his great folly he is led astray.



The father’s advice in Proverbs 5 now turns to the dangers presented by the “forbidden woman” (vs. 3) The NASB translates the word as an “adulteress.”  The Hebrew word literally means “the strange woman.”  She has already been introduced in Proverbs 2:16-19 in contrast to Lady Wisdom.  The contrast between Lady Wisdom and the “strange woman” will dominate the proverbs presented in the rest of this first section, chapters 5-9.

Who is the “strange woman” in your life?  Though the advice is here given to young men, it could just as well include older men and women as well.  The “strange woman could be a “strange man” or even a “strange other.”  This is an extended warning against sexual sin.  It is more pertinent today in America than ever.

You and I live in an oversexed and debauched culture where pornography, adultery, divorce, and all manner of perversions thrive.  Society is filled with people who desperately want to be loved but do not know what love is.  It wants to suck you in and destroy you.

I will speak to men, but my words apply to women as well.

Men, you are going to meet a woman, maybe more than one, who will make you think that sex with her and even life with her will be better than with your wife.  This may happen even when you are not married.  It is a lie.  She will destroy you.  She will destroy your family.  She will wreck your life.  She will literally suck the life out of you.  Get away from her.  Do not listen to her.  If you doubt my words, meditate on the words of Proverbs 5.

“Drink water from your own cistern” (vs. 15).  Learn how to love and be loved with your own wife.  This will bless you forever.  The Lord is really real and He is paying attention.